107 學年度 家庭教育

好書介紹:《孩子的未來,從家庭開始》

        家庭是每個人來到這個世界上最早接觸的環境,也是影響一個人一生最大的因素,因此家庭教育的重要性不言可喻無需贅述。

        台北教育大學心理與諮商學系曾端真教授說:「家庭教育非常重要,且攸關人生幸福與社會安寧。」

        心理學家張春興也認為:「不良少年的問題,病因種植於家庭病象顯現學校病情惡化社會。」

        因此,如何做好家庭教育便成了現代父母的一大課題。

        《孩子的未來,從家庭開始》這本書,是由從事新聞工作的德國夫妻 珮特拉.蓋斯特與克里斯提安.紐倫貝格所著,書中所提出的德國教育與家庭教養問題,其實也是全世界共同的問題,當然也值得台灣父母作為參考。

        書中提到英國一個研究團隊曾針對青少年進行一項關於毒品的研究,發現預防毒品最好的方法就是擁有健康的家庭關係;並指出家庭生活品質愈好,孩子就愈健康、強壯、愈能承受挫折、愈有自信,在校的成績表現也會更好。

        家庭教育首要要教孩子如何生活,如何找到做人行事的正確準則。

        這該怎麼教呢?最重要的就是必須以身作則,孩子很自然地模仿在家裡所見到的一切。父母有禮貌,孩子就會有禮貌;父母有愛心,孩子也會有愛心;父母愛罵髒話,孩子也學會罵髒話。

        再者必須不越俎代庖,由孩子自己去設法克服難關。

        父母幫忙孩子愈多,孩子就愈無法茁壯;父母過多的關注、過多的保護、過多的越俎代庖,就愈容易將孩子養成什麼都不會。父母應該讓孩子在前面走,自己則跟在後頭,當發現孩子極度地需要幫忙時,才去協助,而不是所有的事情都插手。

        此外父母必須能夠區別愛與溺愛,處事態度與賞罰準則必須一貫,並就家庭事件、新聞報導或報章雜誌的內容進行討論與價值判斷,讓孩子能夠思考孰是孰非,建立正確的價值觀。

        以上都是《孩子的未來,從家庭開始》一書所提出的觀點,作者以日常生活中的情境或事件,探討家庭教育的著力點,提供父母教養的法寶,相當值得一讀。

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